The key in letting go is practice. Each time we let go, we disentangle ourselves from our expectations and begin to experience things as they are.
SHARON SALZBERGAll forms of meditation strengthen & direct our attention through the cultivation of three key skills: concentration, mindfulness & compassion or loving & kindness.
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Let the breath lead the way.
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Because the development of inner calm & energy happens completely within & isn’t dependent on another person or a particular situation, we begin to feel a resourcefulness and independence that is quite beautiful—and a huge relief.
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Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn’t depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.
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We have the power to improve our work lives immeasurably through awareness, compassion, patience & ingenuity.
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Forgiveness can be bittersweet. It contains the sweetness of the release of a story that has caused us pain, but also the poignant reminder that even our dearest relationships change over the course of a lifetime.
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People turn to meditation because they want to make good decisions, break bad habits & bounce back better from disappointments.
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We don’t need any sort of religious orientation to lead a life that is ethical, compassionate & kind.
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The key to cultivating confidence in ourselves is understanding our right to make the truth our own.
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It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
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Its never too late to take a moment to look.
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Meditation is the ultimate mobile device; you can use it anywhere, anytime, unobtrusively.
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Our ability to connect with others is innate, wired into our nervous systems, and we need connection as much as we need physical nourishment.
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Self-compassion is like a muscle. The more we practice flexing it, especially when life doesn’t go exactly according to plan (a frequent scenario for most of us), the stronger and more resilient our compassion muscle becomes.
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Only when we start to distinguish reality from fantasy that we can humbly, with eyes wide open, forge loving and sustainable connections with others.
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When we bring deep awareness to whatever’s bothering us, the same things might be happening, but we are able to relate to them differently.
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Fearful of wasting a second, we hoard time as if it were money.
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Pain & suffering requires time, awareness, and an intentional practice of self-love to disentangle.
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We need the courage to learn from our past and not live in it.
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Forgiveness that is insincere, forced or premature can be more psychologically damaging than authentic bitterness & rage.
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We often get caught up in our own reactions and forget the vulnerability of the person in front of us.
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If we fall, we don’t need self-recrimination or blame or anger – we need a reawakening of our intention and a willingness to re-commit, to be whole-hearted once again.
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To offer our hearts in faith means recognizing that our hearts are worth something, that we ourselves, in our deepest and truest nature, are of value.
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Letting go is an inside job, something only we can do for ourselves.
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By engaging in a delusive quest for happiness, we bring only suffering upon ourselves. In our frantic search for something to quench our thirst, we overlook the water all around us and drive ourselves into exile from our own lives.
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The embodiment of kindness is often made difficult by our long ingrained patterns of fear and jealousy.
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Thinking we are only supposed to have loving & compassionate feelings can be a terrible obstacle to spiritual practice.
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