Forgiveness can be bittersweet. It contains the sweetness of the release of a story that has caused us pain, but also the poignant reminder that even our dearest relationships change over the course of a lifetime.
SHARON SALZBERGPain & suffering requires time, awareness, and an intentional practice of self-love to disentangle.
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We find greater lightness & ease in our lives as we increasingly care for ourselves & other beings.
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The art of concentration is a continual letting go. We let go of what is inessential or distracting. We let go of a thought or a feeling, not because we are afraid of it or because we can’t bear to acknowledge it as a part of our experience; but, because it is UNNECESSARY.
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Like water poured from one vessel to another, metta flows freely, taking the shape of each situation without changing its essence.
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If we have nothing material to give, we can offer our attention, our energy, our appreciation. The world needs us. It doesn’t deplete us to give.
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Mindfulness, also called wise attention, helps us see what we’re adding to our experiences, not only during meditation sessions but also elsewhere.
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As we practice meditation, we get used to stillness and eventually are able to make.
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It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
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To relinquish the futile effort to control change is one of the strengthening forces of true detachment & thus true love.
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The embodiment of kindness is often made difficult by our long ingrained patterns of fear and jealousy.
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Once we are honest about our feelings, we can invite ourselves to consider alternative modes of viewing our pain and can see that releasing our grip on anger and resentment can actually be an act of self-compassion.
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By practicing meditation we establish love, compassion, sympathetic joy & equanimity as our home.
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The mind thinks thoughts that we don’t plan. It’s not as if we say, ‘At 9:10 I’m going to be filled with self-hatred.
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Our practice rather than being about killing the ego is about simply discovering our true nature.
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When we don’t tell those we love about what’s really going on or listen carefully to what they have to say, we tend to fill in the blanks with stories.
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We long for permanence but everything in the known universe is transient. That’s a fact but one we fight.
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We can free ourselves from the old stories that have reduced us & allow real love for ourselves to blossom.
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The overarching practice of letting go is also one of gaining resilience and insight.
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Fearful of wasting a second, we hoard time as if it were money.
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We have the power to improve our work lives immeasurably through awareness, compassion, patience & ingenuity.
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When we learn to respond to disappointments with acceptance, we give ourselves the space to realize that all our experiences—good and bad alike—are opportunities to learn and grow.
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Meditation can be a refuge, but it is not a practice in which real life is ever excluded. The strength of mindfulness is that it enables us to hold difficult thoughts and feelings in a different way—with awareness, balance, and love
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When you recognize and reflect on even one good thing about yourself, you are building a bridge to a place of kindness and caring.
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To reteach a thing its loveliness is the nature of metta. Through loving kindness, everyone & everything can flower again from within.
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By engaging in a delusive quest for happiness, we bring only suffering upon ourselves. In our frantic search for something to quench our thirst, we overlook the water all around us and drive ourselves into exile from our own lives.
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Even when we do our very best to treat those close to us with utmost respect and understanding, conflict happens. That’s life. That’s human nature.
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Mindfulness isn’t difficult, we just need to remember to do it.
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