All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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