It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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