All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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