There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
PEMA CHODRONBeing satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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