Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
PEMA CHODRONSo war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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