Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
PEMA CHODRONThe greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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