By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
PEMA CHODRONMeditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
-
-
Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRON -
Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
PEMA CHODRON -
Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
PEMA CHODRON -
Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
PEMA CHODRON -
The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
PEMA CHODRON -
We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
PEMA CHODRON -
Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
PEMA CHODRON -
When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
PEMA CHODRON -
Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
PEMA CHODRON -
The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
PEMA CHODRON -
As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
PEMA CHODRON -
The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
PEMA CHODRON -
Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
PEMA CHODRON -
To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
PEMA CHODRON -
It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
PEMA CHODRON