Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
PEMA CHODRONUse what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
PEMA CHODRONIf you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
PEMA CHODRONFeel the feelings and drop the story.
PEMA CHODRONSo war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
PEMA CHODRONAll you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
PEMA CHODRONOur true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
PEMA CHODRONOpenness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRONWhen we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
PEMA CHODRONWe can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
PEMA CHODRONYou are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
PEMA CHODRONInner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
PEMA CHODRONResisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
PEMA CHODRONLet difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
PEMA CHODRONThe essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
PEMA CHODRONTreat yourself as your own beloved child.
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