Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
PEMA CHODRONMeditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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