When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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