Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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