Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
IYANLA VANZANTHave the courage to be exactly who you are without apology. Admit your mistakes without beating yourself up. Release all shame! Release all guilt! You cannot live if you are hiding behind what was. Focus on what is, right now, and that is you!
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life.
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When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
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Their issues are not your issues.
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Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in grander ways.
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When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
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We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
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If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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Loving yourself has nothing to do with being selfish, self-centered or self-engrossed. It means that you accept yourself for what you are. Loving yourself means that you accept responsibility for your own development, growth and happiness.
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Every day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
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Nothing destroys self-worth, self-acceptance and self-love faster than denying what you feel. Without feelings, you would not know where you are in life. Nor would you know what areas you need to work on. Honor your feelings. Allow yourself to feel them.
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With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.
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Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
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You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
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You will stumble at time, forget what you want, fall headfirst into your old habits and beliefs. Fear not! Always remember to be patient and loving with yourself and others because that is what God does all the time.
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