One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
IRVIN D. YALOMThere is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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