There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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Anand Thakur
There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
HENRY CLOUD
Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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It is true that you get what you tolerate.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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