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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.

Henry Cloud

To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
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Consequence Natural People Power Rescue
In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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Face Freedom Lose Order Right
You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.
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Demand Life Mature Person
Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Issues Person Problem Relationship Soft
The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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There is a difference between solitude and isolation. One is connected and one isn’t. Solitude replenishes, isolation diminishes.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Date Equality Yourself
Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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Existence Freedom Love Operation Responsibility
Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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Angry Control Fact Frustration Ourselves Reality
It is true that you get what you tolerate.
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Tolerate True Yourself

The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.

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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.

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