If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
HENRY CLOUDSuccessful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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There is a difference between solitude and isolation. One is connected and one isn’t. Solitude replenishes, isolation diminishes.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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He is the Truth, and He wants us to deal in truth with ourselves and our loved ones. We want the truth about you and your family to flood into and overrun the secrets that keep you in bondage to dysfunctional behavior and relationships.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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The sad thing is that many of us come to Christ because we are sinners, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to pretend that we are not!
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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When leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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