For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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Anand Thakur
For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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It is true that you get what you tolerate.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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