Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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