An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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