It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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