There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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