One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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