Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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