Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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