Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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