Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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