Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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