The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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