Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnly by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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