There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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