What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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