It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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