Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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