One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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