Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
IRVIN D. YALOMDeath, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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