If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
IRVIN D. YALOM
IRVIN D. YALOM
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom …the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Emma SchippersEmma Schippers If the scars on my heart were visible to the naked eye, maybe you’d think twice about inflicting more.
Laura Natoli-KearneyLaura Natoli-Kearney I am getting better at forgetting you. I am slowly but steadily learning the art of forgetting you.
Juana GarciaJuana Garcia Paper and pen petrify me, for they pierce right through me, drawing deep blue blood, leaving me utterly cold.
Shreya JoshiShreya Joshi Spend time with people who get excited over even the smallest victories you earn.
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