To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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