I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIf one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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