Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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