Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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