Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
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Alain de Botton234 quotes“Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.”
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Shelby CaudleShelby Caudle If you only enjoy the chase I’m not racing anymore, I’ve set my own pace.
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Roy LichtensteinRoy Lichtenstein Indeed the measure of our intellectual maturity, one philosopher suggests, is our capacity to feel less and less satisfied with our answers to better problems.
Gordon AllportGordon Allport We have had an unspeakably delightful journey, one of those journeys which seem to divide one’s life in two, by the new ideas they suggest and the new views of interest they open.
George EliotGeorge Eliot I will give no deadly medicine to any one if asked, nor suggest any such counsel; and in like manner I will not give to a woman a pessary to produce abortion.
HippocratesHippocrates Decadence attracts me. It suggests a new world, and, for me, society’s struggle between life and death is absolutely beautiful.
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