Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEnvy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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