Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
ALAIN DE BOTTON
Alain de Botton on merit
Alain de Botton234 quotes“Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.”
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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The obvious merits utterance. Character is f**king pertinent.
Al SwearengenAl Swearengen The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton So that’s why one of my rules of parody writing is that it’s gotta be funny regardless of whether you know the source material. It has to work on its own merit.
Al YankovicAl Yankovic The Buddha taught some people the teachings of duality that help them avoid sin and acquire spiritual merit.
Akkineni NagarjunaAkkineni Nagarjuna To give up doing evil is more important than making merit.
Ajahn ChahAjahn Chah It is simple awareness devoid of movement to and fro, of past and future, within and without, merit and harm.
Ajahn ThateAjahn Thate If we only make merit but have not stopped doing bad things, then we will never have a day of completion. It is like an overturned bowl which is left outside in the rain.
Ajahn ChahAjahn Chah Men of real merit, and whose noble and glorious deeds we are ready to acknowledge, are yet not to be endured when they vaunt their own actions.
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