Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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