Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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