The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
HENRY CLOUDIn the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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When leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
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Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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A leader’s responsibility is to cause a vision and mission to have tangible results in the real world.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word ‘no.’ Love respects ‘no,’ control does not.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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