Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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