Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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