In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
PEMA CHODRONResisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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