You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
SHELEANA AIYANAUltra-independence is a trauma response.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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