To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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