There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
TARA BRACHWe wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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