By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
TARA BRACHTelling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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We can find true refuge within our own hearts and minds-right here, right now, in the midst of our moment-to-moment lives.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Whatever you encounter, may that be part of the path.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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