Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
TARA BRACHMeditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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