It’s not your job to awaken your family.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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