If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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