We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
PEMA CHODRONDeep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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