When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
PEMA CHODRONThe best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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