Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
PEMA CHODRONThe best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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