The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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