It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
PEMA CHODRONNothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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