We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
PEMA CHODRONNothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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