When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
PEMA CHODRONUse what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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