The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
PEMA CHODRONUse what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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