Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
PEMA CHODRONDon’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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