So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
PEMA CHODRONDon’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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