One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
PEMA CHODRONDon’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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