Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
PEMA CHODRONDon’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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