Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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