It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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