If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
PEMA CHODRONIt isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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