You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
PEMA CHODRONIt isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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