The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
IRVIN D. YALOMHe had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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